karma

i do believe karma exists...i mean how can it not...???

Billions of people trying to live together .one's actions is supposed to affect the other persons's intent and decisions.its all a highly complex maze of interconnected life.some choices dont affect us.

like if i drank tea or coffee.it doesnt matter.maybe it does.what if i drank the last of coffee and the person next wanted coffee n didnt get it.would it affect him.would he become sad,or grumpy,will mood become dull,his actions changes because i drank the last coffee when i could have also drank tea.

like a decision to join a college.u are going to be part of some group.your actions and words are going to affect many in turn others.what if u had one to a different college,one might have never known those people and all might end up in different places...so its this reasons that makes me believe one should always weigh one's decision before making it,bcoz one doesn't know how many people gets affected due to our decisions...

So choose to act wisely, though no one is perfect and can never be 100% sure, but still you will know that your decisions and actions were your own and regret if any might; be lessened to an extent.

old memories

10 10 10 10 10 10
i.e tenth october of the year 2010 at 10hrs 10 min and 10 seconds

where were you???
me..i was searching ball in the ground where i was playing cricket.the match hadnt even started and my friends were practising. suddenly the ball jumped the fence and went into some bushes(never to be found again).but what i would like to think is the fact that today was such a unique day..where in all the 10 number were to be found together. Something like that will happen only after 1000 years (in the year 3100).but we dont give much importantance to such events .why???

there are so many unique events that has happened in my lifetime,from ellcipses to allignment of planets in a row,comet sightings, all number repeating 1, 2, 3...so on till 12, but the importance given is very normal. old people would say they saw wars, fought in one, did this and that...similarly for us when we are old this would be the days we will recall and tell our future generations.but what do we do ..waste it doing something inconsequential...something which we wont even remember ever...why do we do such things. such events should be remembered, made memories of, take photos videos..do something to make it a memory.for me may the memory of 6 10s will b of searching a ball with friends, but would i remember it ...mayb ..mayb not...so i write this post to remind myself what i did "that" day...!!!
every moment of our life is filled with such unique important moments.we can hope to remember all of those , but we dont...
but shouldnt we make an effort to remember as many as we can...to make every moment unique,..by trying to make a memory out of it!!!!!

thoughts

it really is so hard to think sometimes bcoz what a lazy a**(pardon my language) i am.

An idle mind is a Devil's workshop, that is without doubt true. how to be thinking wen there r so many thoughts running thru ur head. WEIGH them according to which is more important or to weigh them chronologically, which comes first n all. i guess both, it requires constant practice to be apt at this.

so many ideas, some half remembered some half forgotten, some long ago thought that it is a distant memory.one has to value one's ideas views and thoughts more than anything, bcoz those r things that makes a man an unique individual. think about it, there are so many people out there, its only our different views about different things that makes individuals and also our agreement on various issues that creates a bond or relationship between people.

for me, my ideas and thoughts range one end of the universe to another covering various topics hre and there, i guess its high time that i too do the "weighing" thing coz time is something we should all respect.And like me there r thousands out there who might have the same idea or thought, but i want mine to be recognized coz of d selfish being i m !!!

my quotes

a. "the day you called Tomorrow Yesterday is TODAY"...[:o] [:D] -!!

b. u try to be different, think different, do different, all your life..... to be different from the crowd....
but u ARE different already,,,, bcoz u "TRY".......!!!!!

c. they say, its hard to get a job.....

i say, its more harder to chose which job....??????

d. on fb update status:

sometimes i write things on my update status, den delete it without posting........
coz i know, its not a therapist or a friend who will reassure or respond to ur problems or views.......
its just another way to make a bigger jacka** out of urself.........!!!!

e. the most amazing things happen ...

when u just give it a try...or a chance....!!!!!

f. wat does a job mean to u???
money, security, success, goals, a path to a better life.....
or just a "job"....?????

mysore ooty conoor pt 1

i happened to have a great time with my family and relatives recently,a trip  bangalore - mysore - ooty - conoor - and back,
but the hard part is, how to go on about a trip. the place to see, where to stay, how much to spend..all those questions.

but from my previous experience i  knew two things that were absolutely necessary:

1. a good vehicle, i mean a good one, in my case (we were 6 people + driver) a new and recently serviced TOYOTA INNOVA with AC, the best RS 10.5per km ever spent.
2. a very good driver, in my case happened to be the car owner himself (he runs a tours & travel, a very professional person)

so where to go:

ok, the starting point;
i stay in bangalore, my parents and my relatives, i.e. my uncle, aunt and their daughter came from Mumbai, where my home is. they came by flight in the morning (9.30 they arrived at bangalore). and we felt for mysore directly; just like that we were on the road.

how i planned i out next post.

know thyself.... maslow pyramid

awareness...self awareness..there is pyramid, a very famous pyramid called as MASLOW's pyramid.

it has various stages five in all, the tip/top is self awareness, i personally call or imagine it to be a Buddha like stage,leaving all things , searching for truth, all knowing, be a being on higher level than others, to know n more importantly understand things clearly for what it stands. but do such things happens, would i consider leaving my loved ones in search of truth or whatever it is, not really, do u really know all things, do we have time to do all this soul searching and journey for the truth.

it is very important, i believe at least, its important not only for me but also for the people around me.i would know what i want, why i want it, what would do with it, it would reduces stress, conflicts, and bring more happiness and peace of mind.for me peace of mind is essential, its maddening to be always surrounded by chaos.

do we have the time or assets to carry out a soul searching or try to reach self awareness,we should, what time does one need, you are with yourself your entire life. one doesn't leave oneself .every moment is a learning experience.learn, understand, develop. know thy strengths and weaknesses, know thy sources of happiness and sorrow, know thyself.....

it starts here......

the time to change has come. dreams and fun is good. but to dream and not turn them into reality; to pursue fun and not enjoy the journey is of no consequence.

all the dreams have to listed, they have to weighted, they have to be pursued, for they are for me.
i know, i believe it to be true, i feel this dreams calling out to me every day, all the time in think of a future, all the time i think of doing something, something different, the time to reach out has come. they have been calling for such a long time. i have been lazy, i have been afraid, i have been stupid. but i have to respond, for i believe this wont go on forever. the time has come for me to decide to take all me dreams and create reality.

it starts here .....
it starts today.....!!!